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SWINGERS CLUBS Swingers clubs have as much diversity as swingers themselves.  Clubs can be everything from a converted house or warehouse with few amenities, to lavish, gourmet dinner-serving, indoor hot tub and pool sporting luxury facilities. Some clubs are "Off-premises,"  meaning no sex occurs on the premises.  Here you meet and flirt, then go elsewhere to play.  Others are "On-premises," and include a variety of places to play in the club.  Some clubs have areas where towels and lingerie are the only dress allowed and should provide towels for those areas.  Also, many will limit entrance to couples and single females on certain nights of the week.  If you are making your first visit, you may wish to go on nights without many single men (unless that is your desire!). A note of caution:  Please look carefully at the clubs' sites you are interested in visiting. Most clubs have innocent sounding names, but may not be in line with your labels or desires, as some clubs cater to fetishes or fantasies.  If your first time, it might be overwhelming to attend a club where there were no lights at all or where the decor was dungeonish and the swingers were clad in leather and spikes!   Also, do not avoid a club that may not have much description here.  Many clubs restrict details until you've identified yourself.  If discretion is important to you, this is a plus. To experienced lifestylers:  If your favorite is not listed or adequately described, or if you want to review a club for us, please let us know by emailing us at info@officialswingersonline.com .  Thanks!   Once you've picked a club, see below for your next step on this wonderful adventure. Alabama Clubs Alabama Pleasures Club - Birmingham.  Off-premises, floating location club by invite only.  Join list for invite. Gulfcoast Playground - Mobile.  No single men allowed Party Palace - Homestead.  On-premises BYOB facility with its own events or for rent catering to swingers.  Join their website and then watch for an "e-vite." Sweet Desires Club - Birmingham.  On-premises, BYOB, floating location club. Alaska Clubs Fairbanks Swingers - Fairbanks.  A Yahoo group Arizona Clubs Black Rose House  - Bullhead City. On-premises, open Friday and Saturday.  BYOB with pole, lockers, roof, hot tub, theme rooms. Club Encounters - Phoenix.  On-premises club, open 7 days a week.  Over 18 welcome. Discretions - Phoenix.  A Yahoo group. Phoenix Adult Lifestyles  - Phoenix - A yahoo group. S2 -  Phoenix.  A meet and greet group, meeting on the 2nd Saturday of each month. Arkansas Clubs Spa City Connections - Hot Springs.  Off-premises party held at a hotel onthe last Sat. of each month.  Friday warm up festivities occasionally occur.  Little Rock Passion Club - Little Rock.  Off-premises monthly party held the second weekend of the month. California Clubs Party with Norm - Orange County.  Floating location parties.  No private areas, Saturday only.  Some single males allowed. Allure - San Diego.  On-premises, luxury facility.  BYOB, includes dinner, pool, jacuzzi.  Lovely! Mix it up with Norm - San Diego.  Norm gets around, doesn't he?  Anything Island - Another of Norm's things, but a B&B. Swinging with Norm - Los Angeles. Blue Moon Socials - Northern California.  A group hosting meet and greets. Celebrity Swingers - Los Angeles.  A yahoo group hosting BYOB functions with no single men allowed. Club Amnesty - Orange County.  An On-premises club.  BYOB, no single males. Club Fusion - A floating party. Club Kiss - San Francisco.  A selective on-premises club.  No single men allowed.  You must provide pictures and be approved to enter. Club Sesso - Floating location parties. LiteNSweet - Floating meet and greets. MyLifestyleParties - Palm Springs Sea Mountain Resort - Palm Springs.  A clothing optional, somewhat lifestyle friendly nudist resort. Steve and Silvers - A couple who often host private parties at their house catering to those in their 40s and 50s. Studio 54x - A floating party. Lifestyle Mansion - Riverside.  On-premises, BYOB party. LustParty - Los Angeles.  Only for the young and sexy.  Very discriminating. Twistparty - San Francisco.  BYOB party. Colorado Clubs Club Mystique - A house party. Scarlet Ranch - Denver.  On-premises, BYOB club The Retreat - Denver.  On-premises BYOB club open Friday and Saturday nights.  Connecticut Clubs Leisure Time - On-premises, BYOB club. Delaware Clubs Florida clubs Alter Ego - A floating location fetish party. Caliente - Tampa.  A SDC.com, lifestyle friendly nudist resort.  Wheee! Club Cinsual - Sarasota City - a floating location party. Playful Couples - Tampa.  An On-premises, BYOB facility open Wednesday and Friday through Sunday. Club Elite - Port Richey.  Open Thursday through Sunday. Club Hedonism - An on-premises, luxury resort. Club Indulgence - Jacksonville.  A Floating location meet and greet. Club Kink - Boca Raton.  the fetish playhouse. Club Sinsational - Jacksonville.  An off-premises club, open Saturdays.  Club Tastebuds - Orlando.  A floating location, off-premises club. Club Xpressions - Sarasota.  An Off-premises, floating location party. Dark Cavern Real Players Club - A floating location party for members only. Emerald Coast Social - Pensacola.  A floating, off-premises  meet and greet. Miami Velvet - Miami.  An on-premises club. Nightmovesii - Tampa.  An on-premises club. The Other Oz - Fort Myers.  An On-premises club.  Single men are always allowed.    A great place! Ranch4Play - Orlando and Daytona.  On-premises with a buffet.  Open Friday and Saturday nights. Rooftop Resort - Hollywood.  A clothes optional, lifestyle oriented hotel with theme rooms and a rooftop pool. Sapphire Lounge - Palm Beach.  On-premises, open Thursday through Saturday nights. Sun Coast Sinsations - Off-premises, floating location parties all over Florida. SW Florida Play Palace - Off-premises meet and greet club. The Group Room - Sarasota.  Off-premises club. The Orlando House - Orlando.  An on-premises private residence where parties are hosted. The Hunt Club - Melbourne.  On-premises parties held in a private residence. The Underground - Jacksonville.  Floating location, off-premises parties. Trapeze - Fort Lauderdale.  On-Premises, BYOB club.  Not as fance as the Trapeze in Atlanta, but definitely worth the visit.  Georgia Clubs (the author's favorite state to play in) Little Wings  - Atlanta.  On-premises club open Fridays and Saturdays. Pleasure Grove Resort - North Georgia Mountains.  A lifestyle-friendly nudist resort.   A great place with friendly people, a heated swimming pool, dance hall, BYOB bar, restaurant, hiking, camping and rooms.  See their calendar for theme weekends.  Don't forget to check out the "Charter House," where swing parties are held regularly! Southern Socials - Augusta.  On-Premise party planners Swinging Atlanta  - Atlanta.  On and Off-premises floating location meet and greets and parties. Trapeze - Atlanta.  On-premises, BYOB, very upscale facility including gourmet dinners and breakfast prepared by their own chef,  3 hot tubs, large heated pool, private and public play areas.  Open Wednesday through Sunday with theme nights. Club Venus - Atlanta.  On-premises.  Open Thursday through Sunday.  Single men welcome.  No alcohol. 1763- Atlanta.  On-premises dungeon.  Often catering to the fetish crowd.  Has theme rooms including doctor's office, dungeon, shower room. Kansas Clubs Adult Playground II - Topeka.  Off-premises Bed and Breakfast. Menages KC - Kansas City.  An On-premises club. Kentucky Clubs Bluegrass Secret Social Club - Louisville.  A BYOB Meet and Greet. Illinois Clubs Alternative Nites - Chicago.  On-premises, single friendly venue.  Open the 2nd Friday of the month. ClubFB - Chicago.  On-premises. BYOB facility that offers a dinner buffet.  Singles allowed. Club Meet 4 More - Chicago.  An On-premises club. Couples Choice - an On-premises club. Indiana Clubs Klub Layden - A 7300 sq. ft.  on-premises, BYOB club. Iowa Clubs Club Blackhawk - Waterloo.  An Off-premises geocities club. Louisiana Clubs Club Nymphos - Baton Rouge. French Connection - location vary.  French Connection sponsors events like Naughty in N'awlins in July.  Check them out! The Lagniappe Chateau - Chreveport.  On-Premises, BYOB facility. Maryland Clubs Sweet Extassy Couples Society - St. George's county.  An On-premises club. Tabu Social Club - Catonsville.  An On-premises, BYOB club allowing single men. Massachusetts Clubs Kaloopers - Worcester.  Email for information on these meet and greets. Club Sinz - North Shore.  Hosts parties on-premises at wicked. New England Couples - An Off-premises social. Michigan Clubs Bi-wives Club - an SLS.com group. Cherry Lane Nudist Resort - N. Adams.  Club 616 - Grand Rapids.  Offers monthly off-premises BYOB social gatherings. Lakeshore Social Club - Muskegon.  Off-premises, BYOB parties held the 4th Saturday of each month. Michigan Couple's Club - Flint.  An Off-premise party. Motor City Socials - Off-premises parties held the first Saturday of the month. Devilz Paradize - a lifestyle friendly hotel.  Wheee! Naughteebinature - Flat Rock.  Off-premises parties held several times a year. Rumors - Off-premises parties. Score Couples - Warren.  Off-premises parties. The Meeting Place - Kalamazoo.  Friday and Saturday night parties held weekly at a private residence. Minnesota Clubs Club Hedonism Minnesota - Minneapolis/St. Paul.  Off-premises Club. RealCampers - Near Sandstone.  Clothing optional, lifestyle friendly facility. Swingstock - A once each year swinger's blowout.  Not to be missed! Missouri Clubs Couples for Sensual Recreation - St. Louis.  Floating location Off-premises parties. NOTE:  This may be a defunct club, as the website references 2006 often. Missouri Lifestyles Club - Sedalia.  An On-premises club scheduled to open in early 2008. Springfield Social Club - Off-premises, couples only parties. Montana Clubs Billings Social Club - Billings.  Not simply an online club, the Billings Social Club holds monthly lifestyle parties in designated locations.  They are open for swingers, couples and single men and women.  They are the largest and most active club in Montana, Wyoming, Idaho and the Dakotas. Nebraska Clubs Nevada Clubs The Hush Club - Las Vegas.  An On-premises, BYOB club Couples Oasis - Las Vegas.  On an-premises club. Dilligas Saloon - Reno.  An On-premises club with lots of fun activities. Fantasy Social Club - Las Vegas.  An on-premises club. Green Door - Las Vegas.  An On-premises club open 365 days a year.  The Green Door is an institution!  Not to be missed on your next trip. Love-Vegas - Las Vegas.  Private parties for members of this online group. Pokher-Knights - Reno.  On-premises, BYOB club open Friday and Saturday nights. Whispers - Private on-premises club.  No single men allowed.  You must get on the online guest list for more information.  New Hampshire clubs Clubsinz - Portsmouth, sea coast area.  Also in Massachusetts. New Jersey Clubs Allie and Gary - Atlantic City.  Off-premises party hosted by a couple who love to shoot pictures. Blue Fantasy - Atlantic City.  On-premises, BYOB club Caligula's Temple - AtlanticCity.  On-premises, BYOB club. Second Saturday Club - Floating location meet and greet held the second Saturday of the month. Toga Joe's Temple - Atlantic City.  Off-premises social for the "young and sexy." New Mexico Clubs Mountain Dawn Lodge - Eagle Nest.  A Lifestyle bed and breakfast. North Carolina Clubs Blue Ridge Socials - Asheville.  Off-premises social parties held infrequently. Carolina Friends - On-premises parties held Friday and Saturday nights at the Estate.  Worth a try! Central Carolina Connections - Winston-salem.  Off-premises socials. Couples-for-Massage - Eastern NC.  Group massage sessions and classes and weekends. Forbidden Fruitz - Reidsvile.  Off-premises socials. PDC - Off premises socials. The House - Raleigh.  BYO wine/beer on-premise house party. You Know Where - Eastern NC.  On-premise party. North Dakota Clubs                 OK.  NOW THAT YOU'VE PICKED A CLUB, WHAT'S NEXT?   Theme Nights .  Now that you've picked a club, find out if they are having a "theme night".  These nights dressing in costume is not mandatory, but a good costume can help make friends.  Be creative, and newbies, there's no need to be scantily dressed unless you are comfortable!  My mate and I made several new friends at a "party like a rock star" party by going as the Blues Brothers, clad from hat to the ground.  Theme nights are great for newbies, as the clubs or groups sponsoring them will often provide a guest list and allow you to access information on the guests with contact information.  Pick a guest with similar guidelines to yours and contact them in advance.  How comforting it would be to know that a regular at the club would be looking out for you and would show you around!   A word on dress .  Please dress appropriately so you will be allowed in.  Many clubs require men to dress "business casual" - collared shirts and dress pants (no jeans).  Women are encouraged to dress for success, as this is a blatant bootie call!  Ladies, that means SEXY.  Remember, newbies, demure can be sexy!  So is spandex, leather, lace, lingerie, nudity, men's blazers or button-down shirts open over panties and bras, little plaid schoolgirl outfits (yep, no matter your age), etc.  A word on Alcohol.  Many clubs allow you to bring your own alcohol and they will provide bartenders and mixers. You may be surprised at how little drinking occurs at swing clubs, however, but once you think it through you will understand, as alcohol has a certain effect on many mens' ability to play. If you do take alcohol, take a small amount of something requiring a mixer. Too much alcohol leads to so many issues, from regret to arguments to performance inabilities. How to make friends.   At clubs the music is loud and it is hard to talk with prospective playmates. Don't worry:  most newbies are easy to spot: they have either a certain deer-in-the-headlights look or cheshire cat smile. Don't be afraid to approach people and use your newbie status as an icebreaker.  We can tell who you are, and using your newbie status as an icebreaker is a sure way to meet regulars who will happily and openly address any questions or concerns you have, or point out swingers they know who may have compatible labels . Additionally, newbies have a certain status and are desireable to many swingers. Remember the prestige of having a virgin? Well, you are the virgin here. Enjoy! Public advances by strangers .   Invariably, you will be playing with your partner (or another) in a group or couple's room  and someone next to you who you haven't  met will discreetly touch you gently in an innocent place. It is an invitation to join them! If you do not respond, they will remove their touch and that is the end of it. If you are interested, simply return the gesture! Many women in the swinging community are at least soft-swing bi-sexual and like to kiss, stroke and lick other women. Wheee!  Quickly let your new friends know your labels and limitations, and then play on!  It's not unusual for the play to slowly grow in this fashion into a group of six or more couples, so keep an eye on your partner for safety and happiness sake.